You can need what you do not know. Eirene: How do you know all of them resent you, that there isn’t one that needs you? Drey: Because they can’t need what they don’t know. If I go to them, I abandon them if it doesn’t work. If I never go, I can’t re-hurt them. Eirene: Two things. Rule #1: You can need what you don’t know… From Iris’s Non-Dating Rule Book